Become the subject of your own sentence, instead of the object of someone else’s

One of the geeat things about being able to pick and choose, is to pick and choose.

For most people, even with that freedom, they don’t , because they cant. They accept every, and all, thinking that will fill their gap. And they continue empty, because, of course, their choice didn’t; it can’t.

the better the choice, the better the art

The definition is a limit. Defining a new word means accepting a group limitation.
If you restrict yourself, and your understanding in the same way, then you are limited to what has already been written; what has already been said; defined to the edges of the page. You are left on the margin of meaning. Not much room to grow, is there>