Marriage isn’t same sex, different sex, anything sex or else it is only sex. Marriage for sex. The conservative position is that marriage is for the purpose, the primary, perhaps only, reason for marriage is SEX.

I doubt that the church is still wedded to that position, but maybe yours is. The only reason to be married is to have sex. If you didn’t have sex today, are you married?

Gender Neutral Marriage: marriage for love.

There is always a better way to say anything. The way that makes your point the point of conversation.