The Definition Is

The definition is a limit. Defining a new word means accepting a group limitation.
If you restrict yourself, and your understanding in the same way, then you are limited to what has already been written; what has already been said; defined to the edges of the page. You are left on the margin of meaning. Not much room to grow, is there>

All Grownup

As a little girl, you yearn to wear heels and lipstick. Why?
As a teen, you became that girl. The one on the cover; the one on TV. You wear lipstick for him. Would he wear it for you? Do you have to take him as he is, while he gets you as a substitute for the magazine cover, the warm tv woman?
Do you really understand the questions here. Do you understand why?

When will you grow up?