Another Way: Gender Neutral

Marriage isn’t same sex, different sex, anything sex or else it is only sex. Marriage for sex. The conservative position is that marriage is for the purpose, the primary, perhaps only, reason for marriage is SEX.

I doubt that the church is still wedded to that position, but maybe yours is. The only reason to be married is to have sex. If you didn’t have sex today, are you married?

Gender Neutral Marriage: marriage for love.

There is always a better way to say anything. The way that makes your point the point of conversation.

gender nullification.. without a word.

On The Job Poet

“I didn’t think I could teach. So I thought I didn’t really want to be a teacher. I thought teaching was having a certain pedagogical intelligence which I didn’t thing I particularly possessed. It didn’t have any faith in myself for being able to teach. And also I though I wanted to live in the world. What I really liked about, say, the Beat poets as well as the New yorkSchool, two radically different sets of individuals, was that they lived in the world insofar as they went to a job every day. And I really like that. I wanted to just read what I wanted to read. I didn’t want it to fit into anything at that point. I wanted to wander off and read whatever I read, go whatever way I wanted to go. I guess in a way now I’ve done that enough so that I can teach different courses. ” — John Yau